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The Un-Domestic Diva

How hard could it be to make your own Christmas arrangement?  Looks easy enough in the magazines, and on the internet, right?

Christmas Arrangement - viaGoogle Images
Photo – via Google Images

It’s almost Christmas and I’m surrounded by women who cook and bake AND do great home decor. My sister, daughters, mother-in-law,  sister-in-law, girlfriends: domestic goddesses, every one.  Some even sew and knit.

I,  meanwhile, am a failed domestic diva.  I baked a cake – once.  I failed knitting – twice.  I try – Lord knows I try – but I’m still an exceptionally underachieving cook.

But it’s Christmastime, after all. A time of great hope.

Angel and Ball
Angel and Ball

So I decided to make Christmas stuff. The kind of stuff that won’t give my family indigestion,  catch fire and burn (as the solitary cake did), or that anyone needs to wear. (That sock I tried to knit is indescribable AND a family joke.)

In the past, I used branches from the trees in my garden,  tied together with a big red ribbon – and called it a Christmas bough. Hanging on the front door, it was only seen from a distance,  or when we had visitors. Very polite visitors.

But this year, I decided to go big or  ….  no, I was already home, so let’s forget the rest of that saying.  I decided to be ambitious.  To arrange greenery in containers. One in the plant-stand outdoors, one in a container indoors. Artfully composed,  of course.

Did I mention that I failed BOTH art and photography in school?  Something to do with composition.

Christmas Greenery
Christmas Greenery – First Muddled Attempt

I collected branches of everything that grew right next to the verandah of our home. I’m under a kind of house arrest, you see  – mandated by my doctor because I overdid it with the book-related activities and also started a new medication with woozy side-effects.  I figured that as long as I went no farther than the verandah, it would still qualify as “resting at home”.

I put a double layer of plastic in the bottom of the containers, and placed the wet florist foam on it. (The foam was wet, not the florist.) Then I stuck branches of stuff into it. Spruce. Juniper. Euonymus.   Boxwood. And pine cones on sticks. I stepped back to admire my handiwork.

It needed something.  Aha! More red dogwood sticks.

Blog Photo - Chirstmas Arrangement Outdoor

It still needed something.  But I was worn out and achy and very woozy.  I wisely took to my bed.

Two days later, I felt brighter. Contrast, I thought! I need contrast!

So I fetched some “brownery” –– brown-leaved branches from last Christmas, forgotten in a tall container in one corner of the verandah.  But when I cleverly tried to add them, the florist foam had frozen hard due to cold weather and the brownery crumbled, leaves falling from brittle stems.

I searched the house and found a little fake bird and some loose pine cones and judiciously placed them among the greenery.

Birdie Bird
Birdie Bird

But it still needed something. I just never  figured out what.

As for the inside container?  There was a coup de grace: garlic. Yes, garlic on stems.  Harvested from our garden this fall, it’s surprisingly decorative,  will deter vampires and spice up my cooking efforts after Christmas.

Garlic Bulb
Garlic Bulb

But that bit of creativity wore me out completely.  So I stuck some shiny red Christmas ornaments on branches in the container and called it a day.

Indoor Arrangement
Indoor Arrangement

Lord, give me strength. Clearly, you withheld the talent.


This post is dedicated to everyone who struggles with domestic arts. And to all domestic goddesses: you give me something to aspire to. Or maybe that’s ‘perspire’. 

31 thoughts on “The Un-Domestic Diva”

  1. What if you can’t make ornaments,you can write books and very interesting articles,most of us can;t do. We were all given different gifts – don’t worry,be happy!!!!!

  2. Cynthia, Your indoor arrangement looks lovely. Just when I thought, a little red would do the trick, then wallah-you did it! Much better than I could have done. If it makes you feel better, I failed in Art classes as well. Cheers!

  3. In the middle of yet another day of trying to break all previous productivity records, I stopped to read this installment of your blog Cynthia and laughed myself silly. Thank you. I can say ditto to all of the artsy challenges and “failures” you describe but do you know what…your gift with words is both priceless and sufficient. New saying: If you can’t….share the stories of your efforts and lighten the day for those of us who are similarly challenged and taking ourselves way to seriously. Love you!

    1. We may as well laugh, eh?
      Thank God for another woman who can’t do this stuff!
      My younger daughter told me yesterday that my attempts to decorate the hallway and staircase this Christmas “look like Christmas threw up in our house”. Then she went through, removing and replacing stuff.

      Do you think we’re lacking a certain gene, you and I?
      Thank you, Andra.

  4. I read this at the perfect time. Every year I have good intentions of sitting down and handmaking decorations with my kids. We end up doing something every year, but it leaves me feeling like an inferior mom! My kid’s lovingly let me off the hook, but I still feel a bit guilty. Thank you for sharing! This makes me feel a little better 🙂

    1. Thank you for the support!
      We’re under an ice storm here. Like Narnia during the Ice Age, it would be beautiful, if it weren’t so scary. Fallen branches all over the place. Trees turned into giant ice sculptures.
      How’s the weather where you are?

  5. I think your basket is charming and infinitely more successful than my efforts last year – I tried to make greenery-plus-bauble hangings to go over each of the indoor doors. Luckily there are NO photos of my efforts (I have kind relatives).

  6. I can relate, Cynthia, but think your arrangements are pretty! I can never understand how other women, who have a lot more going on than I ever do, can cook, bake and decorate their homes to rival Martha Stewart. I do bake cookies but that’s it. Guess I have some other talents that are escaping me right now. Hope you’re feeling better. 🙂

  7. I think your arrangement looks just fine. Not everything we do has to look like it was meant for a magazine. The world needs more reality. I look forward to reading more of your stories, you have a great gift for making us want to read more.

  8. I’m on the very same undomestic page, Cynthia. The talent in our family flowed straight past me and into the offspring. 🙂 Which is why I shall very much enjoy my visit to my daughter. And I like your efforts 🙂

  9. Those are beautiful and I, like you, have not a crafty bone in my body! I try, I mean I really try, but I have “man” hands and my fingers can’t seem to make anything delicate, dainty or decorative!!!!

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