Wisdom, Foolishness and Joy

Once in a while, I do something wise.

Such was the case when I invited some friends from church to our home.

“Come to afternoon tea”, I said.  “On the verandah and in the garden.”

Blog Photo - Garden - Red Wiegela

Of course, the plan was immediately followed by a piece of brash foolishness.

“I’m doing it all myself,” I proudly told my husband.


By myself, I had rarely entertained more than one person at a time, afraid that I wouldn’t be able to handle it.

“Okay,” he finally said.

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Carefully, I made a menu, a shopping list and a detailed schedule.

Checked them a million times.

Tidied up the verandah.

And prayed for good weather.

Blog Photo - Afternoon Tea Verandah 1


Daughter and son-in-law kindly took the list and went shopping.

My good man left me alone to get everything ready.

Then he phoned: “Shall I pick up a couple quiches?”

“No,” I said. “I have enough food.”

“Hmmm…” he said.


The garden looked lovely.

Blog Photo - Afternoon Tea garden with hosta and tree

Flowers bloomed.

Blog Photo - Afternoon Tea Pink Poppies

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Birds sang their welcome.

Blog Photo - Afternoon tea cardinal


I took a deep breath.

Our guests were arriving.

My husband smoothly took over the greetings, drinks and garden tours.

Blog Photo - Afternoon Tea Rev Claire and HG

In the kitchen, I smelled something delicious.

Quiches warming in the oven.


I started out very well.

But before long,  our friends ordered me to rest. I wisely obeyed and everyone helped everyone else.

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Everything unfolded according to plan, prayer and an abundance of good sense (not mine).

Blog Photo - Afternoon Tea guest in garden

Perfect weather for garden-touring.

Blog Photo - Afternoon Tea Poppy deep pink

Happy and helpful guests and one very thoughtful husband.

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There was also this frequent visitor.

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And yes:  the quiches were a hit.


It’s such a great blessing: having a caring church family to call our own.

For years we’d kept telling Claire, our priest: “We’d like to invite you and others to visit.”

But I simply hadn’t felt up to the task. So Claire wisely nudged us and last week, it finally happened.


Blog Photo - afternoon Tea Group shot 1

Watching their happy faces made my husband and me happy.

We ended the party by saying ‘the grace’.

As we held hands and prayed, my cup ran over with joy.


Great thanks to photographer Gundy Schloen.



Filed under A Good Home, Afternoon Tea, Friendship, Gardens

73 responses to “Wisdom, Foolishness and Joy

  1. Valerie Rowley

    Your garden looks beautiful Cynthia and I am glad you were able to share it with those important to you.

  2. So good to have a chance to share your beautiful garden and hospitality. I’m sure it was well appreciated.

  3. Georgeina

    Cynthia, thank you for the wonderful afternoon. Lovely hostess, beautiful flowers, excellent food, great company and perfect weather. What more could anyone want? I had a happy and memorable time. Many thanks to both you and Hamlin.

    • Hey, that’s the first time in years that anyone has called me a lovely hostess. My goodness, my head is swelling. Thank you, Georgeina, for being with us, and for your kind comments.

  4. Your gardens, yard and home look lovely Cynthia. And I’m glad you were able to share those gifts with your church community. Sharing our passions and joys seems to multiply them. Helpful husbands are nice too. XD
    blessings to you and yours…

  5. I do so love an afternoon tea but I must say, your company and the beautiful setting would set the bar high! Beautiful, Cynthia. Looks like a little slice of Heaven in a busy week:). Good for you for being a gatherer!

  6. How lovely and nice to share with friends!

  7. Such a beautiful garden and what a thoughtful husband. Looks like a great time, thank you for sharing it.

  8. What a wonderful team you and your husband make. Cynthia, I’m sure your guests come to sup on friendship—regardless of what’s on your table. And what a bonus you have such a beautiful home and garden.
    Blessings ~ Wendy ❀

  9. What a wonderful day that must have been! I just love days like that.Your flowers are so beautiful.

    There was this one photo with some deep pink trumpet shaped flowers. Are they “Angel trumpets (Datura Brugmansia)”?

  10. So glad you were able to entertain with a little help. Hospitality is one of those things that blesses the giver and the receiver. Your garden is beautiful.

  11. Looks like a lovely day was had by all. Whenever I’m invited somewhere I’m grateful to my hosts for opening their home to me and sharing themselves with me. I’m sure, quiche or no quiche, that was the sentiment at your afternoon tea. Your gardens and verandah are beautiful.

  12. Lovely joyful happy post Cynthia, I can see how much this means to you. Precious memories too.

  13. Grace and peace to the lovely garden, friends, and blog author.

  14. Such a lovely gathering and warm friendship, Cynthia. So nice over afternoon tea too! Glad it was a beautiful day! 🙂

  15. A wonderful gathering! And that veranda is so incredible gorgeous! Love and Peace, Johanna

    • I love verandahs — they seem to bring out the best in everyone, most of all me. Our family homes in Jamaica had verandahs and the deep verandah was a staple of the area where I was raised.

  16. Looks like a happy, happy gathering and what a fine day! You WERE wise!

  17. Oh what a joy to see you and your church community gathered together enjoying your garden, enjoying each other’s company, supporting each other. When you talk to the garden next ( 😉 ) give it my love and thanks for bringing you all such pleasure. And special thanks to the peonies for being extra beautiful on the day.

  18. You are blessed in having a tactful and loving husband. I often commit myself to something and then find I’m not really up to the job anymore. The will is there but everything else is on a go-slow! The joy of visits from close friends and church gatherings is that no-one sits around waiting to be waited on. Everyone pitches in and it becomes so much nicer. You have a beautiful garden with gorgeous flowers. I am so pleased the tea was a success. God bless you, Cynthia!

  19. Looks like such a perfect afternoon!!!

  20. Hi Cynthia, Your house and your gardens are gorgeous!!! Wow, what a lovely place to call home. 🙂 I think your family (and precious husband) did exactly the right things, knowing when to help and when to step back. The kind of gathering you hosted really is the sweetest and most special. Your church friends and priest look so happy to be there with you.

    Thanks for sharing these images, and congratulations on a party well done!

    Big hugs to you,


  21. Amazing how finally doing something we’ve wanted to do for so long can make us feel so good. What’s next on the list?
    I’m glad that you have so many caring friends, and a caring husband too!

  22. What a lovely day, Cynthia. It’s great when everything works nicely 🙂

  23. Splendid, all the way around!

  24. My cup runneth over….
    What grace, joy, and strength!

  25. A beautiful way to spend a lovely afternoon with friends. What a joy! Your garden always inspires and motivates me to get up and attend to mine.

  26. I’m glad you took the plunge and invited your guests Cynthia, it sounds like a lovely gathering in a lovely setting.

  27. Inese Poga Art Gallery

    What a great thing: to arrange such come-togethers! I love inviting people, and I’m sort never worried what to serve. It’s too bad I have not many people here around who I know and could invite, most of my friends and all relatives, except my husband are in Latvia, across the ocean.
    Your garden party looks excellently carried out, everything so neat and so beautiful. I believe it’s always worth the efforts.

  28. It’s nice when we know our own limits – or think we do – but equally nice when someone loves us and knows them even better. Lucky you to have such a loving husband.

  29. Looks like a beautiful day, Cynthia! Wonderful pictures 🙂

  30. So much beauty and so much joy in one place. Blessings indeed!

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