A Good Home

Hello!

I hope you are doing well, wherever you are.

I’m sitting in the garden as I write this, having done chores inside and outside, and exercised.

In the garden, I’ve been “deadheading” – which sounds macabre, I know. Dead heads of flowers are cut and thrown n the slope below the garden in my vain hope that I will get phlox and bee balm growing “wild” next spring.

It’s calm here and the main sounds are from a variety of birds and a fountain. I love those sounds and realize they are among the outdoors things I miss so much in winter. Unlike my husband, I am not a winter person.

A bird has just flown off the feeder. A chipmunk darts out from under cover of a hosta bed, to see what seeds the bird scattered for him/her. But s/he sees me nearby and retreats.

The news here and abroad is grim. I no longer think I can change the world – that realization took me a long time but it doesn’t make me less anxious or furious.

I worry that the White nationalism next door in the US has already made its way here. There’s nothing Christian about it, so I omit that word.

Here in Ontario, the auditor general has released a scathing report of government corruption: the ruling party has sold off some of our crucial wetlands and wild spaces to friends of the premier.

That’s what can happen when most people refuse to vote – handing the Conservatives a majority win though only a small minority elected them.

Anyway, on to more pleasant thoughts.

Just above is a pink phlox. They are so nicely fragrant – I had forgotten.

More importantly, our family has enjoyed a healthy four weeks. The grandtoddler is well except for a nighttime cough, and the grandbaby has her first tooth. Husband has recovered from a back injury in May (he worked with a great chiropractor) and I’m… I’m as usual.

Reluctant to risk more back pain, I’m doing a lot of reading, thinking and gathering material for a future book. But I’m still not writing (except for a Myrtle the Purple Turtle book which Lauren and I keep discussing). Writing causes pain and calls for a lot of solitary time – which takes me away from my family. For now, I’m choosing family.

Here are a few more scenes from our August garden:

With news of another Covid variant, I have no idea what the fall will bring, but for now, I will enjoy “the moment” and wish you well.

From the garden,

Cynthia.

A Good Home

Life, Still

The beautiful moments are often arrived at through a circuitous journey of challenges.

In other words, life.

A thing to be much valued.

On a stroll through the garden yesterday, the GrandToddler reached out and plucked 3 blooms from their stems. Back in the house just before our Mother’s Day lunch began, she walked up to each of the 3 generations of mothers present and handed each person a flower.

Then she looked around at her dad, grandpa and great aunt and decided they each needed a flower as well. So back into the garden we went. This time, I followed behind a very determined 3 year old and watched her choose and pick the flowers.

It’s been a beautiful spring – cool, which means the blooms last longer. And in case you’re wondering what that cage is doing among the pink and white bleeding hearts, yellow daffodils and pale pink tulips – it’s to protect the bleeding heart plant from rabbits. They like some of the tender stems in our garden.

Until I took the above photo, though, I didn’t realize that the front garden in spring is very colourful, but the back garden is more subdued. The white trillium below (Ontario’s provincial flower) grows in patches and occasional singles throughout the back garden.

I must have planned it that way and forgotten.

Or maybe not. Such is the life of a forgetful gardener. Makes for delightful surprises every spring.

Whatever the reason, there are patches of both white and blue flowers throughout the back garden. Below is one of my favourites: the forget-me-not, which self-seeds so prolifically, I think of it as both a perennial and an annual. It grows between stones or wherever it pleases.

It’s been a rough few months but I’m so glad to be alive. Among my happiest moments is time spent with our grandchildren. Did I tell you we have a second granddaughter now? What a sweetie. And so alert. She’s been grinning and “talking” back to us since she was 8 weeks old. Lifts the heart.

As I did with the GrandToddler, I plan to start taking her on walks through the garden before long.

Life is made up of many and varied moments. On one end of the spectrum, some are brutal, yes. Trust me: I know. But many are beautiful.

Flowers from a grandchild, and grins from another, rank right up there with the best of them.

I hope you are doing well,

Cynthia.

A Good Home

A Winter’s Tail

A favourite from 2015

The birds are back with songs of Spring

Their tunes incite imagining

That Winter’s end will soon arrive

And living things shall haste to thrive

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Via vitalxrecognition.wordpress.com/
Image Thanks to: vitalxrecognition.wordpress.com/

A Winter’s tail, how bittersweet!

Today it’s sun, tomorrow sleet

And wind to stop us in our tracks

And cold to freeze Spring-hungry backs

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One day we feel a wave of hope

Warmed by our thoughts that we can cope

And then come gales of Winter still

And blizzards coat the windowsill

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Blog Photo - Icy Winter evening

Hey, Winter! Do your level best

Your time is near to take a rest

For Lady Spring prepares to rule

She’ll thaw your ice and warm your cool

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She’ll rout you, kick your icy tail

She’ll make you wish you’d stopped at hail

Who’s mighty now, oh Freezer Guy

Who rules the roost? Oh my, oh my!

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Blog Photo - Rainy Garden with Flowering shrubs

Spring wakes the earth; the gardens flower

She turns grass green and makes you cower

She strips away your winter clothes

And sprinkles sunshine up your nose

Blog Photo - Mama's Garden2

She brings new life to garden trail

She gives new strength to plants so frail

To stand up ‘gainst your mighty storm

And so defy your freezing form

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Hey! Winter’s Tail, I kid you not

Pick up your snow and off you trot

Break down your ice and melt away

See you around, when skies are grey

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Blog Photo - Lilacs and forget Me Nots

See you next time, oh Frigid One

But not too soon, for Spring’s begun

And three great seasons I shall see

Before you’re back to torment me.

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Thanks to Hamlin Grange for all original photos.

Dedicated to all northern gardener friends.

A Good Home

The Peonies are Bloomin’!

The peonies are blooming in different shades and varieties. A bit late here in the sticks, but it’s been a splendi-florous week. 

Blog Photo - Garden June 2020 - RustPink Peony

Blog Photo - Garden June 2020 - White Peony 2

Blog Photo - Garden June 2020 - Deep Pink Peony opening

Blog Photo - Garden June 2020 - Garden Deep Pink Peony

Blog Photo - Garden June 2020 - White Peony with Bee legs showing in centre

Yes, those are the legs of an insect in the centre — it didn’t move so maybe it’s asleep, as this was early morning.

Happy Juneteenth and I wish you a lovely weekend,

Cynthia.