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When Readers Write

Photos by Hamlin Grange

One of the most enjoyable experiences I have as a writer of a newly published book is hearing from readers. It happened with my first book, A Good Home: I got hundreds of notes and cards from readers.

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This time, a new thing happened: readers started emailing me while still reading the book. Bloggers whom I knew and many readers whom I didn’t, wrote as they finished a chapter or part (the book has 3 parts).

I love it! 

I also love the surprises involved.

Jeanne at Still A Dreamer posted a beautiful remembrance of her dad’s garden.

I savoured every flower, every memory she described. Then, at the end of her post, came a surprise connection to An Honest House. A smile warmed my soul.  I was glad that reading about our farmhouse gardens had triggered Jeanne’s happy memories.

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But when – over just 2 days — readers in 3 different countries wrote to praise “all the great food” in An Honest House, I was stunned.

The only great cook in this house is my husband. Could I really have written so much about food? It sent me scurrying to reread my own book. 

Eureka! There it was, dozens of mentions:

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Food growing and being harvested from the garden.

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Food cooking on the stove or fresh-baked from the oven.

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Pots of jelly burbling.

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And there it was: 

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The joy of making apple pies, apple crepes and jellies – from our own rare apples.

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The delight that comes from knowing that almost every ingredient in a meal has come from one’s own garden.

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Family and friends having supper — cooked by our resident chef.

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Above 2 photos by Robert Vernon

And, of course, the hilarity that follows my guests’ discovery that I’ve ruined yet another simple dish.

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Running gag among family and friends:

Me: Hi there. Will you please come over for supper?

Them: Ah…hmm… who’s doing the cooking?

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I learned that sometimes, what you think you are writing and what the reader is getting may be not exactly the same. I knew that I wanted to infuse this (sometimes painful) book with my family’s gratitude and joy in life’s simple pleasures. But it took my readers to tell me how much I’d written about food.

So:  ever wanted to write to an author whose book you enjoyed?

Do it. You might tell them something they didn’t know. 

 

A Good Home, An Honest House, Author Cynthia Reyes, Book Reviews, Books

An Honest House

Great thanks to Kevin Cooper for this fabulous review. I was so glad to read it!

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Lorna

 

We share a history, Lorna and I.

Can you imagine washing and blow-drying a client’s hair when that person is in pain from head to toe?  When you’re trying to cut her hair but she can barely move her neck? When that person can’t sit for longer than a few minutes at a time? 

A hairdresser could go broke with clients like me. So my appointments are always at her quiet times. And I sometimes bring her a small gift to show my appreciation.

This time, it was a copy of my new book.

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As Lorna tended to my hair, I asked if she wanted me to read a chapter of the book. 

“This chapter is about you,” I said, smiling at her in the mirror. “That okay?”

“Of course!” she said.

But part-way through, Lorna turned away.  

I felt awful.

“I’m so sorry, Lorna,” I said, closing the book.  “I didn’t mean to make you cry.”

“No, no!” She replied, wiping her eyes. “Keep reading! Please!”

It was an order, not a suggestion.

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Lorna knows our back-stories. Some of her clients are stars — in business, the professions, film, TV and music. Most aren’t. Lorna remains humble, respectful to us all.

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“Sure you want me to keep reading?” I asked.

“Keep reading!” she said. 

So I read and Lorna quietly cried.

When the chapter ended, Lorna was smiling – a weepy but radiant smile. I smiled back at her face in the mirror, weepy too.

“I never expected anyone to put me in a book,” she said, shaking her head at the wonder of it.

Bless you, dear Lorna.

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This, That and The Ebor

There’s this: a crop of summer-blooming Amaryllis, a huge flower that normally blooms in winter — unless you’re like me and forgot the bulbs in the cold room until recently….Blog Photo Red Amaryllis2

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Then there’s this darling photo of Mr. D. and Mr. JC. 

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Then – for a change of pace – these two vintage cars….

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…in front of my favorite 17-room mansion, Ebor House.

You may remember that time I got lost and ended up sipping coffee with a stranger in the kitchen of his beautiful old mansion.

Ebor House was built in 1868 by the Farncombs, a remarkable English-Canadian family which counted two Lord Mayors of London, England, as close relatives.

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Well, there I was at Ebor House again last Saturday, and this time, for a very different reason.

For the second time, Ebor House was a highlight of Doors Open Clarington.  The architectural conservancy event features many beautiful heritage buildings in Clarington. And I was the author guest, invited to speak about my books, share my knowledge of Ebor House and also the Farncombs’ history.

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While I was in one room, “Farnie”, great-grandson of Frederick and Jane Farncomb, was in another room, charming visitors with tales of growing up at Ebor House. He inspired me to keep going: his energy was so radiant! 

Well over a thousand visitors — including a few cyclists- visited Ebor House. 

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Some were the younger generations of the Farncomb family, keen to learn the history of their family and their ancestral home. I was glad to meet them and answer their questions.

I was pleased that my sleuthing through history also ended up helping Doors Open Clarington.  My thanks to MaryAnn Isbister, whose excellent design work turned my 6-part blog series on Ebor House into a full-colour fundraising booklet for the event.

The volunteers (including Leo Blindenbach, who was in charge of the Ebor House site) were organized and gracious — as were the new owners of Ebor House, Andrea and Nav. Yes – Ebor House has new owners — or should I say “stewards”? They have been loving and caring for the old house, and making further repairs.

Organizers Bernice Norton, Marilyn Morawetz, Leo and the rest of the Doors Open Clarington team should be very proud!  Bravo, all of you!